I didn’t fully bond with Chloe until she was nearly two. I went home for Thanksgiving and she and I were playing and occasionally I would give her a squeeze and say, “Auntie Tiffy loves Chloe!” We went to the park and she fell down and scraped her hand and she raised it up to me and said, “Auntie Tiffy kiss it!” At that point I was ready to buy her a car. When we got back to the house, she was having lunch in her high chair and she was eating and chatting and out of the blue said, “Auntie Tiffy loves Chloe.” I was pretty much done. It was one of the only times it’s been hard for me to come back from a trip home.
I don’t know how it’s all going to shake down with the boy. I’ve only seen him a few times in his one year of life and I have two more coming up. His personality is already very different from hers and he and I will learn to relate to each other on a very different level. I’m really excited to get to know him as he grows and speaks and becomes the person he was created to be. Happy birthday, little man!